The past 2GDs i have taken part at CL, have been an eye opener.
For the first time in life i have been termed as an aggressive personality, which obviously means coming across aggressive as far as my communication in a GD goes.
Besides that verbose too has been an adjective which has been linked with me...issi line se pata chalta hai...cant i just say that i have been termed verbose too:)
It all started with my initial few GDs where i couldnt even muster the courage to speak, leave alone making an impact. further on when i started to speak, it was like a customary entry...nothing great since even with good content and confidence to speak...i just wasnt allowed to speak.It feels really bad when you become dependent on someone else for being able to speak, and the group dynamics controls the amount of air time you get.
Its because of the above circumstances that i have started to become aggressive at least as far as the GD goes...which is absolutely contrary to my nature.
Dont think it'll take a lot of time to improve but this time round i want it to be just perfect and dont wanna get stuck too much on the other side.
Song of the Post:
Roya Re from the film Dhoka...one of the very few songs which i don't like to croon but just hear.
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4 comments:
dont worry dude!! even if u r not able to speak much in the GD then also u have another opportuinity in form of PI to explain y u didnt talk much...
i know it sounds weird but thr r atleast 4-5 people i know who did that and have reached whr both of us want to be someday!! :)
i guess u misinterpreted a bit...woh pehle hota tha that i did not use to speak...ab i speak well but the problem is with the high volume + high speed of talking:(
n thts y aggressive bhi lagta hai...waise jahan jaana hai wahan jaane ke liye pehla hurdle cross ho jaaye wahi bahot hai...baaki baad mein dekh lenge:)
thanks 4 the comment btw...tc.
HI rohan.
Even i was little agressive during gdpis. DO lots of practice. you will be able to low it down.
all the best.
thnks for the support...try kar raha hun...jaise hi yaad aata hai while speaking i slow down but it affects my fluency a bit....so need more practice...abhi toh 2months left so lets c.
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